Introduced to this in AP Chemistry

Incomplete Octet: H, Be, B

Expanded Octet: Metalloid / Nonmetal elements in 3rd period and beyond

4 elements HAVE to have an octet: Carbon (C), Nitrogen (N), Oxygen (O), Fluorine (F)

Rules

  1. Give all atoms an octet
  2. Place remaining pairs on 3rd period (& below) element - typically central atom

Exception to Octet Rule

Row 3 and heavier nonmetals can have more than  electrons around them when they have to. Row 3 and heavier elements have empty orbitals that are close in energy to valence and orbitals. These empty  orbitals can accept extra electrons.