A suit is the most versatile outfit one can wear
A suit can be worn at any and every occasion
Everyone looks good in a suit, you see someone dressed up in a classic black coat and pant, white shirt, and a tie of their favorite color you instinctually turn your head to see if anyone important is passing by
- A suit can be worn at a job interview
- A suit can be worn to class
- A suit can be worn at a party
- A suit can be worn to sleep
I don’t want to wear a suit for one particular occasion
Preventable Funerals
I love everyone, friend, family, or someone I dislike.
Everyone is important to someone, a mother and father awaiting the return of their child, a classmate who found your presence enjoyable, or a friend who you haven’t talked to in a while who eagerly awaits your call
Attending my first funeral in 2024 impacted me more than I could have thought. If someone asked me I’d call this person my friend. A parents biggest fear is how their kid is going to do after they’re gone yet they’re at their own kid’s funeral. Seeing how it affected the people around me who are close friends to the person who passed. All of these things cumulatively just made me think why couldn’t have I done more, what could have I done better, and what can I do now.
It was not his time to go, he had so many great things ahead of him and he was genuinely a good person.
I put on my white shirt, black pants, fancy shoes, and coat and attended his funeral.
It’s not for me to decide when it’s someones time to go, but whenever that time comes I’ll happily put on my suit and celebrate that person’s existence in this world. Everyone has to go at some point and I know if it was my time tomorrow I’d want people to celebrate all of the joy I brought in their life rather than mourn.
It was not Shaan’s time